How Healthy Parenting Styles Boost Academic Success: The Link Between Home and Classroom

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Jun 4
4 min read

Author: Ana Marče

1. Parenting at Home

Routines and restrictions aren't the only aspects of parenting. It's about making an enviroment where kids feel secure, encouraged and motivationed. When parents balance warmth with clear expectations, they give children the tools to succeed in school and in life. For instance, children feel more at ease expressing their concerns when they grow up in a loving, encouraging environment. This means that when they're having trouble with something, they're more likely to ask for a help.

2. Open communication

A connection between parents and children is created through open conversation. Regular talks provide children a sense of being heard and understood, whether they are discussing a difficult day at school or a minor accomplishment.

In addition, parents who listen without judging build trust. Children find it easier to solve difficulties and maintain motivation when they feel comfortable discussing their emotions. A parent who listens and maintains a good attitude, for instance, can encourage a child who suffers in math to try again rather than give up.

3. Setting boundaries and clear expectations

A healthy parenting style includes setting boundaries, they are not meant to control, but to guide. This indicates that kids are aware of expectations and consequences for breaking them.

However, these limits need to be reasonable and age appropriate. Children may become anxious or rebellious if there are too many rigid regulations. However, if there aren't enough regulations, they might not know what's right or wrong.

4. Warmth and emotional support

When parents give to their children a lot of warmth, kids are behaving better in stressful situations. When children feel loved and valued, they’re more confident and willing to fight challenges at school.

In addition, research shows that emotional support at home can boost children’s motivation. They are more likely to have confidence in themselves and put up greater effort, especially in the face of difficulties.

For example, a child feels more comfortable trying new things when they know their parents are proud of their effort, not simply their grades.

5. Healthy parenting styles: The Research

Studies back up what many parents know from experience: a balanced, supportive parenting style helps kids do better in school. For example, a study by Zahedani, Rezaee and colleagues (2016), published in "The Influence of Parenting Style on Academic Achievement and Career Path" found that children whose parents mix clear boundaries with warmth make more confident career choices and do better academically. The development of accountability, drive and a feeling of purpose is facilitated by disciplined but supportive parenting. The study also highlights the value of strong parent-child bonds and encourages families to prioritize positive discussion and guidance at home.

6. Meet Tom and his parents

Let’s consider a real-life example. Tom, a 12-year-old, was struggling with science. His parents, who value open communication and warmth, encouraged him to talk about his worries.

By showing patience and understanding, they helped him find the best ways of studying that worked for him. In addition, they gave him credit for his efforts rather than just his final grade. Tom's confidence increased with time, and his academic performance also improved.

7. Practical tips for parents

Not sure how to create a supportive, structured home? Here are a few easy tips:

- Talk every day. Trust and understanding can be developed in just ten minutes of genuine discussion.

- Celebrate effort, not just results. Express your pride in your child's efforts.

- Create a study-friendly routine.Regular homework time that is calm helps kids concentrate.

- Be patient. Mistakes are part of learning — encourage your child to keep going!

- Stay positive. A positive outlook at home might motivate kids to strive for excellence.

8. How parenting styles shape the classroom experience

Children who grow up in a supportive family setting behave differently in class and do better on their homework. Children are less likely to misbehave or give up easily if they feel safe at home. Additionally, they feel more at ease participating in class activities and answering questions.

Moreover, healthy parenting encourages kids to see school as a place to grow, not just a place to “get grades.” This means they’re more likely to enjoy learning and stay curious, even when things get tough.

Final Thoughts: A Team Effort

Academic success isn’t just about what happens at school. It’s also about the warmth, communication and support from their family. Children bloom in the classroom and beyond when their parents practice healthy parenting, which is based on love, discipline and respect.

By working together, teachers, parents and children , we can create a society in which every child has the opportunity to learn, develop and thrive.